Blog: 245 Ways for you to be a lovely person & love yourself without you having a big ego

When you love yourself, it doesn’t mean you have a big ego – it means that you care about who you are to yourself and others.  

If you feel happy because you’re a lovely person, no matter what life throws at you - your internal and maybe your external beauty will shine out of you. This is because you won’t let things bother you as much as others might expect them to. If you being a lovely person shines out of you, you’ll find that people really enjoy your company and want to hang out with you as much as possible.

If you’re anything like me – you were a smoker and you hated it for loads of reasons. If like me, you’ve been strong enough to kick those ‘killing you’ cigarettes to the curb.

Plus, hopefully you have or you’re trying to rid yourself of other things that aren’t good for you.

This kicking out not great for you things - can be as basic as your eating habits.

E.g.: I have a sweet tooth plus a personality that gets very addicted to things. The addiction to white chocolate thing I did was destroying my self-confidence because I put on a very large amount of weight = I couldn’t fit into a lot of my size 8 / 10 clothes.

If you have something / anything you want to kick to the curb, you shouldn’t waste your time trying to find time to slot in your new healthier habits, you should just do your new probably fun thing(s): e.g. me dancing and doing exercise when I was / am having a craving for sugar. It takes my mind off sugar and it gets into the music and my love for a healthier me.

You can use the extra time you have now you’re not wasting it on habits that are ruining your self-confidence and possibly your bank account = money should be spent on things that make you feel good – not make you feel like crap = The time you’ve now gained will make you feel mentally = internally happier in each of your ‘you living in the present moment’ moments.

= Your soul will be a lot happier.

Here are 2 questions for you:

Q) How are others supposed to believe in you if you don’t believe in yourself?

Q) If you don’t love yourself – how is anyone else going to love and respect you?

If anyone has a problem with you living in a healthier way (internally & externally) – let them get on with it. Let them get on with them wasting their time in their life. If you let / make yourself not be affected by other people’s crap attitude, you won’t find yourself wasting your time in your precious life.

Don’t let anyone else’s thoughts and possibly actions towards you ruin your time in each of your present moments.

Never give up on yourself truly believing that your time being happy and feeling like a lovely person are very worth it.