How to master you having big fun when you're in your 20s & 30s, & when your a middle aged cool dude or dudette.

I don’t know about you, but when I was a teenager my mum and my teachers at school told me and most of my friends that when we are grown up adults: we’ll get married, have children = make a family & have a successful career = that’ll pay us lots of money. By the time I got into my 30s they told me (us) that I should have settled down and been extra sensible all the time. This sounded very boring / dull to me, so I was not looking forward to being an adult, because I expected to not love my life. I think every day should make me / you & society feel very happy, because I & you can make sure we’ve done lots of fun things - even if we have to work at a dull(ish) office job - because we have to pay rent money to a house landlord & pay household bills e.g gas & electricity etc.